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The Emotional Weight of Separation When Joe went to prison, I didn’t just lose a husband—I lost my daily partner, my confidant, my support system. The silence in the house is deafening. Simple things like sharing a meal or watching a show together became impossible in the usual way. The hardest part is feeling alone even when you’re surrounded by people. I quickly realized that staying connected required creativity and patience. Phone calls and letters help, but they don’t re

Exposed.... More ways than 1

Whistleblowers play a crucial role in shedding light on wrongdoing within organizations. In the case of the Iowa Department of Corrections (DOC), however, those who raise their voices often face retaliation. This blog post aims to uncover these issues, explore the Iowa DOC's failure to adhere to its policies in cases of whistleblower retaliation, and advocate for accountability. Let’s delve into the dire need for reform and justice in Iowa. The Role of Whistleblowers in the C

Coercive Abuse: The Silent Violence in Relationships When most people hear the word abuse , they picture bruises, shouting matches, or clear physical violence. But abuse doesn’t always leave visible scars. One of the most dangerous and manipulative forms is coercive abuse —a slow erosion of your autonomy, your safety, and your sense of self. Coercive abuse is about control through threats, manipulation, and fear . It’s the abuser’s way of making you believe that your choices,

When Due Process Dies in the Parking Lot: Joe’s Missed Hearings and Iowa’s Failure to Uphold Justice In Iowa, the criminal court process is supposed to be guided by procedure, fairness, and the Constitution. Instead, I’ve watched my husband, Joe, get dragged through a “process” that looks more like a circus than a courtroom. He’s now been denied his right to appear for three major hearings—his initial appearance, preliminary hearing, and arraignment—all because no one wants t

WHEN RETALIATION BACKFIRES: MY ARREST WAS THEIR POWER MOVE—BUT I SHOWED UP ANYWAY Let me tell you a little story about power, control, and what happens when you refuse to bow down to bullshit. For those of you following the saga with Anamosa State Penitentiary, you know my husband Joseph has been the target of relentless staff retaliation, harassment, and unconstitutional treatment behind bars. We filed a civil suit  that outlines just some of the many violations: Inhumane an

“They’d Accept Me More If I Were a Convict Too” There’s something tragic about loving someone society says you shouldn’t. We all remember the story of Romeo and Juliet—two young lovers caught in a world that refused to let them be. Their love was real, but the world around them didn’t care. It wasn’t about what they felt; it was about where they came from. And in the end, their love couldn’t survive the hatred and judgment of others. I used to think that kind of story only be

I feel utterly defeated in my efforts to protect my husband's constitutional rights. It seems like the Jones County courts and the attorney representing Anamosa State Penitentiary are just having a laugh at my expense. Nearly all of my motions have been denied, while any motion sent by the attorney for Anamosa is promptly accepted and approved by the courts. Trial Court Search Below, you will see that Joseph was placed in the "hole" on March 8th, 2025. I didn't hear from him—

You’d think that when someone is fighting for their basic human rights — like proper treatment and fair hearings — they’d at least get to show up  and speak for themselves, right? Well, welcome to the wild world of prison bureaucracy, where even that’s not guaranteed. Recently, I filed a Motion to Reconsider  after the court flat-out denied my request to have my husband, Joseph Killmer, transported from Anamosa State Penitentiary for our scheduled hearing. Why? Because appare

Picture this: a small-town courtroom buzzing with tension. The air is thick as the judge takes a seat, the gavel poised to strike—a symbol of order and authority. Yet, beneath this façade lies an intricate web of legal battles, misunderstandings, and rights that seem to drift further from the reach of those who need them most. This scene brings us to the recent events in Jones County, where a pivotal decision was made that could reverberate far beyond the courtroom walls. On

BY ISABELLA AMORE KILLMER JOE AGE 11 AFTER GETTING HIT BY A CAR WHILE RIDING BIKE. The justice system is often seen as a route to...

Visiting Joseph isn’t just a routine—it’s a vital connection we both rely on. When Anamosa State Penitentiary took away my visitation rights without clear explanation or timeline, it felt like a personal punishment inflicted on both of us. Despite following every procedure and filing grievances, the prison’s internal system failed me completely. That’s why I had no choice but to file an injunction. The Visitation Ban: Personal Punishment, Not Due Process On March 8, 2025 , Jo

I never imagined the fight to protect my husband Joseph would involve battling against something as cruel as prolonged solitary confinement — yet that’s exactly what happened. Joseph was held in solitary at Anamosa State Penitentiary for 71 days , more than twice the maximum 30 days allowed by an Iowa Administrative Law Judge (ALJ) order. This wasn’t just a bureaucratic oversight. It was a deliberate denial of his rights and a form of punishment that left him isolated, suffer

The conversation about solitary confinement is growing louder, especially regarding its impact on mental health and rehabilitation for inmates. In Iowa, prisoners find themselves in isolation for varying lengths of time, prompting important questions about the effectiveness and ethics of this practice. This blog post aims to examine the statistics surrounding solitary confinement durations for inmates in Iowa prisons, shedding light on this controversial issue. Understanding

For months, I have held back sharing the full truth about the dangerous conditions my husband Joseph Killmer and many other inmates face at Anamosa State Penitentiary. Today, I am breaking that silence to bring public attention to the ongoing health and constitutional crises inside this facility — beginning with a serious black mold infestation that threatens the well-being of Joseph and countless others. Black Mold: A Hidden Danger One of the most alarming issues at Anamosa

I suppose I’ll come out hostile on my fresh website , not that- that’s what I would of wanted but , it’s come to my attention that with a rude awakening or “slap in the face” how nice I truly am . Nice meaning - go above and beyond for people I care about and hell .. even a stranger, my efforts to help others at cost of myself is so incredibly took advantage of - that it’s time for that to end . With life you learn lessons . Too bad at my age of 36 years old and the past year